Random acts of goodness are often harmless to our lives, but be cautious about yourself. They can be harmful if not used correctly.
You might find yourself promoting unhealthy habits or compromising more than you should. In this post, we have discussed the cons, disadvantages, and side effects of being too kind in your life.
When you do good, you never know whether or not good things will happen to you. This world is nasty, full of humans filled with hatred and evil who strive to rob poor people of everything they have.
This world has a problem for both. Being kind and not being both are bad.
Cons, disadvantages, and side effects of being too kind and nice to others.
1. It is misused by the vast majority of the humans on our planet. Finding someone who cherishes generosity is rare and unusual.
2. Kindness shown to random individuals is better than kindness displayed to family and friends. Those who are close to you are aware of your flaws. They will misuse them at the appropriate time.
3. Sometimes, random acts of goodness can be risky since you never know whether the one you are being kind to be what type of human. He may take advantage of your generosity. You may find yourself in legal danger if he is a nasty person. You may find yourself promoting unhealthy habits or compromising more than you should.
4. If you show it to the same person, again and again, he will eventually take advantage of it.
5. Everyone would believe you are weak if you are too nice. They think you are a soft-spoken person who can be exploited easily and is mentally and physically weak.
6. There are chances of drawing the wrong individuals towards you. They will come near you to take advantage of your generosity if you are too generous.
7. When you are overly generous with others, you set false expectations for them to reciprocate. You will be disappointed if they do not reach your expectations.
8. You will get deceived wherever you go if you are too nice. This world has a habit of pushing kind people to the corner. Everyone expects blessings in their life without doing any good to others.
9. Everyone around you will expect you to give more if you always give.
10. Some will only approach you if they need something from you.
11. You will end up losing everything. And when you need something from the individuals who you helped will not be there to help you back.
12. Internalize holding in negative feelings that naturally develop in everyday life. It is something that always decent people prefer to do. Depression, anxiety, and addiction are common side effects of emotional stress.
13. Someone too generous is always a liar. They lie to themselves about how they feel on the inside, and they lie to everybody to avoid upsetting anyone, even if it is harmful.
Life tip
Although we often see goodness as a flaw in our life, it has the power to improve physical and mental health.